Reminders of Reminders of Reminders

Sep. 27th, 2025 10:43 am
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My bridge club has once again sent me multiple emails, telling me about a bridge game scheduled at a time too early in the day for me. They hold lots of games, and are eager for more people to play. Once a week, they have an evening game. But it's important to them that I hear about all of them. How else will they get more attendance at their 10 AM games?

My online pharmacy feels a need to send me 4 or 5 emails per package they send me. They also require proactive action once a year for each prescription, because they won't send a request for a refill prescription without asking me first.

After an attempt at cleanup, I currently have 45 threads in my INBOX, each containing one or more unread emails. This does not count unread emails auto-filed into other mailboxes, generally because I have strong reasons to believe they aren't actionable. It also doesn't count anything recognized as spam.

I routinely lose important emails among all the junk mail, even with an active spam filter and other filters for FYI and routine verbosity.

Meanwhile, when I delete the obligatory requests to respond to customer satisfaction surveys, I get sent reminders of this pending task I've already decided not to do. If I respond accurately - "now that you've punished me for using your service by demanding I respond to surveys, I won't use or recommend you ever again" it'll be misinterpreted as a complaint about whatever employee I dealt with, rather than a complaint about the demand that I contribute my precious time to their not-so-precious business interests.

Note to the senders of most of those 45 threads: I hope your afterlife involves wading through emails, full of repetitive rubbish of limited interest, to find the one and only email that - if read attentively - might relieve your ongoing agony, in the manner of Dante's afterlife for sellers of bogus medicine.

A few of your messages *are* the things I'm looking for. Most though are e.g. 5 separate threads to convey one piece of information I want, in the manner of my wretched online pharmacy. And that's with the outright spam already pruned.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 26th, 2025 09:25 pm
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Boing! went the temps.

They're supposedly going to slide and go crunch over the next couple of days. I can hardly wait.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 25th, 2025 11:42 pm
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It must have rained more measurably overnight, at least in the driveway; there was a puddle there this morning. Maybe that was why the dog let me oversleep.
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I am a simple man who likes simple things and Kate McKinnon being willing to make such a mess of herself on Hot Ones made me incredibly happy.

Anyway this is just a quick break from playing Hades II because v.1.0 launched last night! I got one game in before bed (Toby was unimpressed), and am pretty much just going to be playing extremely badly (god SO badly, I played with the scythe today and just, haha, ah, sigh) and getting more story out of this game. It's fun pinging all the achievements (not that many) from previously gameplay and they're all at 0.1% rarity or whatever because not enough people have played this version of the game yet, it'll be nice to see the numbers go up.

It's humid today. The 20C might as well be 30C. I'm going to really miss winter this year, I'm not ready for summer, and spring is not playing around. She's a fickle thing. (Actually, Luflijka, you're not, I know you're doing your best).

I've been thinking of how antis/anti-shippers sometimes respond to 'don't like don't read' as though it's the worst thing to say, but it's really just the fandom equivalent of 'hey you remember what the safewords are right? You can safeword at any time.' It's like they resent being reminded of their ability to consent to reading fic, because they can't handle any form of self-accountability at all. And that's where we start, right before the bullying and the abuse takes place. Idk how anyone ever feels that an anti-shipper ever has a single leg to stand on, when that's the starting line.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 24th, 2025 11:41 pm
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It rained on my sheets. Only lightly, but rain!!! Then all afternoon was histrionic skies, high humidity, and the temp bounced up to at least 80 and the a/c fired. I took the dog for a walkies right after lunch and she led me all around the block ... then suddenly got scared when we were almost opposite the house. I think by the dark clouds that were again rolling in, but who knows.

Mama Violet reappeared on the porch. After throwing up on the sidewalk/pavement. (Yes, I cleaned it up.)
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I literally have spent years thinking 'oh I should write something' and then...not. I get so frustrated with myself over it, and I've been thinking and noodling over how I want to use this, and I think some kind of combination of like, sharing photos like I used to (otherwise why am I paying for that SmugMug subscription lol), and reviewing things I'm engaging with, and maybe talking about writing stuff perhaps.

Sometimes I think what Twitter/X and Bluesky and similar platforms (Tumblr) took away was like, a basic functionality of Dreamwidth and LJ before these things existed, of the more light-hearted, less-gravity style of writing, where if I have a simple thought now, or a little rant, it goes elsewhere, instead of here. And then as a result of that, I mentally feel pressured to write long, meaningful entries that have like, deep emotion or whatever, which is just silly really, because that was never how I used this site when I enjoyed it most.

Like yeah I wrote some deep entries, but I had just as much fun - if not more fun - sharing art and photos and cross-stitch etc.

I've seen other folks like 'I'd like to use DW again' but sometimes I wonder if that's just nostalgia. 'I'd like to reminisce on what it used to be like here.' It's not going to be like that again, but there are cool people here, and I'd like to grow my participation here into something new.

In the meantime, I think Glen might be home, so it's time to go let our dog, Tobermory, go greet him lol

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 23rd, 2025 09:14 pm
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A sudden and dramatic heat wave today. Walking was a bit of a chore. An equally dramatic fall-off in temps is forecast for tomorrow, but I'm sceptical.

This house is for sale locally. $1.5m. Note that the preceding sale was in 2008, for $525,000 out of foreclosure, and that the Street View link goes to what it looked like back then, pre-renovation, when it still had its porch and its little garage. Some real estate sites dated it to 1970 rather than 1930, so I suspect there was another renovation back then.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 22nd, 2025 09:12 pm
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First bad air day warning since late May, for tomorrow. So I ran an errand on foot today. Next to the payment machine at an under-used car park (may have something to do with both payment machines being out of order since forever), there was a hefty paper grocery bag, which when I peeped inside held two wilting celeries. Nearby, a sagging cardboard fruit & veg box had some elderly kale, a potato, and a green apple. Maybe dumped after the farmer's market on Saturday. So I took the apple and have just consumed it after cutting out the bad bit.

... And I blóted for Harvest. Not with the apple, since it had a bad bit.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 21st, 2025 09:07 pm
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Fluorescent pink markings have appeared on lumpy pavements/sidewalks all over the neighbourhood, and the absolutely worst one, a big heave caused by a tree root with something like a 5" difference in height between slabs, has been fixed with soft gravel. There's also a recent patch where the water line work was happening at the one house; same stuff, already has parallel marks from a construction vehicle's enormous ridged tyres.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 20th, 2025 09:19 pm
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My monstera is extruding another new leaf. I kept looking to catch the first signs, but once more didn't spot it until the furled leaf was poking out. I turned the pot a tiny bit to reduce the poking through the curtains, but I know it's fruitless, the plant will just corkscrew fluidly into the light.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 19th, 2025 10:59 pm
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The fruits have been chopped off that vine. Maybe for eating.

Both Monty and Prudence showed up for breakfast, but Mama Violet is again making herself scarce. On the other hand, a couple of days ago I saw another orange cat, a block away. He crossed a dangerous road and continued straight past me. I thought it might be Monty until I saw his tail was shorter—and he wasn't neutered.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 18th, 2025 09:45 pm
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A curiously cloudy and humid day, but so far no rain ... The park was pretty much deserted in the early afternoon. We'd seen three people when we finally came upon a couple sitting in a corner of the playing field on lawnchairs. The squirrels and crows were busy busy.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 17th, 2025 09:46 pm
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That vine that reached over the fence to embrace a tree got cut back, but it still spills over the fence.

I was wondering why it didn't seem to be producing any grapes, so today I paused my walk and looked closer. I think it may be a luffa vine.





D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 16th, 2025 09:18 pm
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Bi-weekly grocery run. To my horror, on the way there we found ourselves behind a matte black Cybertruck tricked out with some sort of military-looking armature over the cover of the truck bed. I suppose it could have been for securing bikes or surfboards or something. But it looked more like Judge Dredd's latest. I was very glad when they turned out to be going to a different store in the mall.

When I returned from this evening's attempt to get the dog to walk, Monty emerged from a hiding place and shot me a look. The dog didn't notice, of course. Prudence was on the neighbours' shed roof. So I returned with food for them both. She started eating but he wasn't visible, either demonstrating his pique or waiting to be sure the dog was safely stowed.
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[personal profile] susandennis recently posted about several technical things she's trying. She's much more bullish on digital tech than I am, and even enjoys shopping (!), but she's been a great source of pointers for me of things I might like.

Today's post included a for-pay ad-free, surveillance-free search engine called kagi. She says she's been hearing about it a lot; I on the other hand have been hiding under my rock, and only just noticed it. (I really should read Ars Technica more frequently.)

After thanking Susan for bringing it to my attention, I just spent some time looking at it, finding myself on the fence about trying it. This Ars Technica article from Aug 5, 2025 says much of what I might have said myself, only better.

Read more... )

I'd appreciate other people's comments.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 15th, 2025 11:22 pm
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Yes, it was hot. Kind of oven-like on my afternoon walk.

Saw my first commercial Cybertruck. Home builders. I have to admit, it's suited to that kind of business. Presumably has good a/c, too.
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The latest newsletter from YLE ended with the dreaded "Continue reading this post for free in the Substack app". I.e. they've gone blatantly freemium. Presumably if asked they'd say they need more subscribers to support all the "value add" that isn't part of their original fact-focussed take on public health in the US, then with emphasis on Covid. They "need" funding for more videos I don't watch, and heavens knows what all else.

They also included their take on gun violence, a subject they insist is part of public health epidemiology. Its inclusion was acceptable to some readers, wanted by some, and rejected by others, to the point that YLE provided an option for subscribers (paid and unpaid) to opt out of receiving such posts. I did so, but nonetheless received today's mixed post.

I have high standards for YLE, formed by their behaviour during the years of the covid lockdowns. Their current behaviour isn't even bad by the standards of substack posters, or modern businesses in general, let alone by the standards of politicians.

But I'm disappointed to see them reverting to the mean/possibly joining the race to the bottom.

And I wonder how much money is being taken home by the YLE principals, and how that compares both with other jobs available to young doctors and with my own best earning years.

To be fair - this was a quite meaty post, before the freemium bit, which seems to be about registering for a paid-subscriber-only live webinar on fall vaccines. (Live webinars are another "value add" I don't want; people who want them are welcome to pay for them.) YLE has a long way down to go before they reach parity with Paul Krugman, and much as I often complain about him, he's good compared to others from whom I've long ago unsubscribed.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 14th, 2025 11:40 pm
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It's supposed to get hot again starting tomorrow. Pity; I've been able to let the dog stay out a bit without the a/c trying to cool the back garden.

The first non-tiny green orange fell off the tree. Or was bitten off, more likely.

D.O.P.-T.

Sep. 13th, 2025 08:32 pm
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Monty and Prudence waylaid me on my way out to walk, asking to be fed. Sadly, I needed to do the walk before the sun broke through, so I had to feed them separately later: Prudence in the back porch at lunchtime, Monty at dusk in the driveway. Maybe the issue was that the guy from the house that supplies better cat food was doing pre-fall inspection and maintenance on his roof.
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